Curiosity comes from being present, trusting, and trustworthy. Rather than impeding it, curiosity facilitates progress.
Read MoreDriving Your Self Discovery: Individual Challenge
One of the best ways to understand what coaching involves is to read accounts of what happened to people when they went: the problems they came in with, the discussions that were had, and how things changed as a result. What follows are three representative case studies of the coaching process: one individual challenge, one team challenge, and one organizational challenge.
Read MoreDriving Your Self Discovery: Case Studies
One of the best ways to understand what coaching involves is to read accounts of what happened to people when they went: the problems they came in with, the discussions that were had, and how things changed as a result. What follows are three representative case studies of the coaching process: one individual challenge, one team challenge, and one organizational challenge.
Read MoreDriving Your Self Discovery: The Voices Within
Part of what coaching offers us is a chance to improve how we both view and judge ourselves so that we can arrive at a fairer evaluation. This process helps us temper the voices we hear within. It can involve learning—in a conscious, deliberate way—to speak to ourselves in a way the coach spoke to us over many sessions. In the face of challenges, we can ask ourselves, ‘And what would they say now?’
Read MoreDealing With Challenging People: Refrain from Judging
Your ability to evaluate others requires context you likely do not have. Instead, focus on yourself.
Read MoreThe Multiple Intelligences of Craftsmen
Before assuming craftsmen have something to teach us, let’s look at how a restoration stonemason approaches her work. We will look in-depth as she attempts to solve problems while creating something in particular. Comments to the right will highlight how she works with qualities to create her piece.The stone carver is experienced in a medium that brings physical limits and opportunities. In this case, this includes a dolly to move her stone, the actual stone, her bankers (workspace), ruler, measuring tape, pencil or chalk to draw design, mallet, chisel, claws for roughing out, pitch for removing large piece of stone, an array of chisels, face mask, and a bag of dollar store reading glasses.
She trained as a stone mason, which is all straight lines and geometric. There is a particular order to how things are done. Heather finds this approach boring so she will change her approach from project to project.
“I’ve always been unmotivated by money, which is a problem for me. Some of my best work is done when I’m avoiding something I don’t want to do. If I was more motivated by money, I might have better attention skills to a particular method, but I understand the consequences of my choices.”
She makes her own rules, informed by methods she has learned, understanding the consequences of her choices in terms of time, materials, and money.
She stands before her stone, preparing it by positioning the side she wishes to cut at an angle that is comfortable for her. She sketches a design on the top side. She neatly arranges her selection of tools in preparation for cutting. She has approximately twenty-five chisels, with many more in her spare drawer. She arranges them by size, from her two-inch chisel to her 1/8-inch chisel. Her pitch, bolster and claws of varying sizes are in the next row.
She physically orients herself toward her work.
Standing before a relatively blank piece of stone, she confronts a problem that is both simple and complex. The stone is a large block. It contains multiple cuts on all sides that generate unexpected angles when chiseled or carved. Her solutions are all unique to her. Another cutter or carver would undoubtedly approach the stone differently. As the problem is being resolved, its form shifts.
She arranges her tools in order of size, or quantitatively.
She stands in between smooth and rough, rules and ambiguity—by choice. “I enjoy a challenge when I take it on. My interest is the defining thing in the carving. I shape it first and then do what detail I need to do. But before I finish I will often do detailing earlier. I need to see if I’m going to like it. That is backward, and not how you are supposed to do it because it is very difficult to go back and do the other work if you don’t like it. This is where my stone masonry skills help me. I understand how to get there, so I understand how to go back. I don’t break the important rules, but I break all the rest.”
Heather’s stance toward her work is driven by the challenge of a project.
Heather must decide what she will carve. It is up to her what issues are important and how to resolve them. All of these decisions are personal to her. The first choice is selecting a stone. Something has to catch her attention. When choosing her stone in a field, she sets it upright, “I’m liking this one. I’m thinking I might be able to get a face there.”
She does not start with pre-defined, measurable goals. Instead, she makes her own qualitative, personally meaningful goals. Some of these goals are clear to her, some are vague, and some emerge as she progresses.She has a loose vision that responds to her improvisation in the medium and is kept on course by her skills. She can rely on method when it reinforces her values: use of good stone, sense of proportion, etc. With the rest, she establishes her own standards.A few of the subjective measures are that is grab attention as a raw material, and also what defines the carving.
“If I did actually have a detailed plan, it would change by the time I touched the stone.” Taking her measuring tape out and dividing the stone in quadrants with her ruler, she makes decisions on proportion for a face, how much of the stone’s length and width to utilize. She puts on her glasses and dust mask and begins cutting. After setting her initial goal with her chalk she uses the nomadic chisel. She carves with the nomadic chisel on top of her lines. She expands to include other elements such as swirling designs and various depths of indentation using multiple chisel sizes.
As she switches from automatic tools to manual carving tools she smooths surfaces, keeps others rough. There are technical visual qualities she is trying to achieve in addition to her more personal goals.In addition to being attention-grabbing, the piece also communicates a sense of permanence with the landscape. It returns to the earth, where it came from, altered by her hand. It has been changed by experiencing her.
“With the hammer and chisel there is a repetitive aspect to it. It’s almost like daydreaming. My hands know what to do, like when you’re driving. I’m not able to think when I’m carving. It’s almost like a meditation.” The vision she has is coming through her hands. “When I get into a rhythm, I’m not there.”
Here, Heather shares the translation of vision to execution. Most craftsmen refer to this as a meditation. There is an increased awareness and presence as they go about their work. References to deep concentration are often followed by contradictory references of being absent in thought or actually not mentally present.
A successful carving includes certain qualities. She brushes off the dust from her chiseling before starting on some of the manual carving. Heather reflects as she chooses her carving tools. “No one teaches you to carve, you teach yourself to carve.” She continues, “And it’s just so permanent. I’ll make this piece today. It may end up in someone’s garden. That person may move on and it may get covered up by bushes. The face carving might get knocked off or broken into smaller pieces--but it never goes away. It’s always in the form of stone.”
Smooth surfaces, stone that appears “soft”, she’s creating concave surfaces that catch water which reflects light. Other pieces might be put in a garden to train the growth of vines.
She has direction and momentum as she progresses from taking the stone from the field, to organizing her materials, to cutting and lastly to carving. Her experience is rooted in her medium—stone—which comes with its own constraints and possibilities.
Heather understands the idiosyncrasies of her medium and uses that knowledge to create the qualities she wants.Knowing how her chisels will work or not with a particular size indentation, she can predict what will happen on the stone and respond automatically to adjust created qualities as they occur.Heather understands that action, control, and lack of control exist simultaneously.
“With stone,” says Heather, “you cannot force a carving. The stone either wants to be altered or “it will fight you.” There is no opportunity to place a chiseled piece of stone back to the main piece, she has to work with areas where she over chiseled, or where the stone is remaining unforgiving. Because of all the sizes she has to choose from each chisel has a unique impact on the stone. Without control over her own body (the pressure she administers on the nomadic tools) and hand tools (the power with which she strikes her pitches and chisels of varying sizes) she won’t get the design she is hoping for. On the other hand, a lot of what she can do is determined by the stone itself. It does, as she mentions, have a will of its own. Therefore, it takes a lot of control to transform an inert, rough, sometimes unforgiving surface into a smooth one.Her attention remains on her chisel as it follows her sketched pattern.She knows she is done with a project when she’s tired of it. “When I’ve gotten out of it what I needed to get out of it—I’m done. I can stop. I can accept that this is the best I can do at this time.”
“About one out of every 20 pieces I make, I have a hard time letting go. A lot of times I make things and I’m not sure why I’m making it. I’m working something out and not sure what it is. When I first took ill, I was making the pea pods, but I didn’t know it. There’s just a huge amount of self-searching in that stone. It has nothing to do with the piece, but everything to do with where I was mentally at the time. To let that piece go, I’m just not ready. But I will have realizations about why I’m making certain kinds of pieces, like I understand why what I’ve been working on is all ‘closed in.’ It’s a way to figure things out for me. They’re like markers of time period.”
Here, Heather shares how she bonds with her work, how she uses it as a form of mental markers and emotional expression. The fact that her emotional work is done is the prize in completion. When she reflects on her work, or sees pieces she did in her past, she will see the errors and opportunities improvement. And, she understands when she has completed a piece and can accept that as her best work for that project, on that day, with the skills she had at that time.
“In general, I don’t like living with my work around the house. I only have one piece of mine at home. That face I carved, I don’t want her in the house. She lives in the gallery. Then I see the flaws in her—what I consider flaws. But that’s just skill development. You always have to see where you can improve.”
Heather self-edits her work critically. She is in constant evaluation of her skills.
Rather than use her action to follow pre-established goals, Heather’s actions allow her to generate her outcomes. She reasons with her sensory experience rather than abstract theories. She acts without hesitating with what she knows while inviting possibilities and being open to possibilities from the stone she is working with. She utilizes a combination of her immediate experience while summoning her past experience to predict and then revise her immediate action in the moment. To perform with mastery, committed practitioners must rely on both measurement (objectivity) and evaluation (subjectivity) in their work.
This post is part of a series #LookToCraftsmen set for publication in 2019.
What a Stone Mason Can Teach Us About Judgment & Decision Making
Before I studied applied behavioral science, I led data projects from multiple angles. I monitored the quality of data; analyzed data; determined data about data; built tools to house data; governed processes and budget around data infrastructure; managed teams that analyzed data; and, I lead accountability projects relating to data. Over the course of eight years, I witnessed data-driven decision making take over like a “fever.” Decisions, no matter how small, relied solely on what was argued to be objective information found in scorecards or survey data. Few problems were seen as adaptive challenges. Instead, most problems were viewed as technical and pre-defined. This happened around the same time Jack Welch became popular for evangelizing Six Sigma. The data-driven methodology for eliminating causes of defects follows a defined sequence of steps and has specific value targets, for example: reduce process cycle time, reduce pollution, reduce costs, increase customer satisfaction, and increase profits. Every group needed data and lots of it. Scorecards became popular. No manager made a decision without a scorecard. We were, essentially, distracted by and addicted to data.
How do heads of state, presidents of major philanthropic organizations, or CEOs make decisions?
Decision making comes down to feelings. The quality of our memory and the amount of information we can access help, but we tend to make choices and decisions based on feelings. Then we start to rationalize—to ourselves and others. It speaks to our vulnerability as human beings that for all the preparation, thought, intensity, and data we put toward choice, a real decision is delivered from the soul.
Whether a leader is strong or weak, or whether he or she initiates or avoids particular decisions, the same forces and factors shape those decisions. In his book, Decision-Making in the White House, Ted Sorensen argues that judgment is “absolutely the most essential element in presidential decision making (and) far more important than organization, structure, procedures, and machinery.”
All leaders must wield their power of influence under limitations. The larger their influence, the more extraordinary the constraints. It is the limitations that give the problem of choice of its complexity and even poignancy. Lincoln, Franklin Roosevelt once remarked, “was a sad man because he couldn’t get it all at once. And nobody can.”
Leaders of major organizations have unique perspectives, immense pressures and high stakes. From my view, the work of such leaders is special but not unique. Appreciating that the scope of their mission is worlds apart from individual craftsmen, the dynamics leaders manage are the same ones that stone carvers, wood turners, metal sculptors—and practitioners in every demanding field manage every day of their working lives. If we overlook the universality of our mental processes, such as judging options, balancing tradeoffs, dealing with uncertainty, we overlook the fundamental capabilities of the human mind.
This post is part of a series #LookToCraftsmen set for publication in 2019.