Belonging is easy to manufacture—rituals, slogans, smiles that signal harmony. It reassures, but doesn’t guarantee substance. Mattering is harder to recognize. It often begins in discomfort, when a contribution unsettles what people would rather leave undisturbed. In classrooms, consulting, and workshops, I’ve seen the same pattern: meaningful work rarely begins with ease. It begins with the risk of being misunderstood.

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